Of Men, Power, And Affairs

The recent CIA sex scandal has brought to light again how easy it is for men in power to succumb to career ending affairs. The number of lives changed by these two women is mind boggling, leading one newscaster to ask, “What do these women smell like!”. Of course, power always draws attention of the opposite sex, and, in our tribal forebearers, was one of the primary reason to attain power in the first place. But in our age of media scrutiny, why aren’t people more careful?
The desire for an affair comes from the deepest and least logical parts of our brains, and, our sex drive must be accepted and channeled in order to lead a fulfilled, balanced life. Being desired by an attractive woman is difficult for many men to deny, especially if the offer appears to be “no strings attached”. Narcissism takes over and judgement is blurred. But why don’t all men have affairs?
It is said that power does not build character, but reveals it. Some can handle the tests, while others cannot. Like Ulysis at the Sirens, don’t listen if you are not firmly grounded. Many crash into the rocks hearing the Siren’s call.
It is sad to see careers sullied and lives changed. But, each case tells of a Man’s poor judgement in areas where judgement is paramount. It is better to know and find others with more integrity. Rest assured, this scenario will repeat itself again soon.